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Gary Melville
Elder
Jan 25, 1953 — Sep 21, 2022
Gary Melville Elder, 69, of Carter, SD passed away on Wednesday, September 21, 2022 at the Sanford Heart Hospital in Sioux Falls, SD. Mass of Christian burial will be held on Wednesday, September 28th, 2022 at 10:00AM at the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Winner, SD. Burial will follow in the St. John Baptist Catholic Cemetery in Witten, SD. Visitation will be held on Tuesday, September 27th, 2022 at the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Winner from 6-7PM with a 7PM Rosary.
Gary was born January 25, 1953 to Jack and Gladys (Hansen) Elder. Gary grew up on the family farm near Carter working with his father and grandfather. He enjoyed showing beef calves in 4-H and also purple ribbons for his various baking abilities.
Gary attended the Red Hills elementary school and then attended his freshman and sophomore years at the Witten High School. As a junior and senior he attended the Wood High School where he played football and helped as manager in other sports. After graduation he attended Mitchell Technical School where he became a welding technician.
Gary married his high school sweetheart, Mary Siegmund, in 1972. They settled on the Siegmund farm in Wood, SD where Gary farmed and ranched. In 1982 they moved back to Carter and continued to farm and raise their family of four very active boys.
Gary and Mary were married for 49 years and 11 months to the day.
Gary participated in many activities and hobbies in his lifetime. He was an avid hunter and also taught hunter safety classes to local youth. He served a term as the Wood Fire Chief and was an active member in the Knights of Columbus for many years.
He enjoyed ringing the bells during the Tootsie Roll drives, helping with the BB hoop contests, and going to the local and district meetings. He also attended many state conventions.
Gary became a talented wood carver and carved many canes, walking sticks, spoons, animals and novelty items which he often gave to family and friends.
His favorite activity was riding his Harley Davidson. He and Mary made many trips to the Sturgis Motorcycle Rally in Sturgis, SD as well as longer ventures to Texas, the west coast and many points in between.
Gary was preceded in death by his grandparents John Melville Elder and Elizabeth M. (Dougherty) Elder, Chancey William Hansen and Alice (Adkins) Hansen and his father John (Jack) Charles Elder.
He is survived by his mother, Gladys L. (Hansen) Elder, his wife Mary (Siegmund) Elder, children Zachary Melville and Jennifer (Thomas) Elder, Jeremy Scott Elder, Abram Joseph and Randi (Spaid) Elder, Joshua James Elder and his grandchildren Ryler Joseph Elder and Emily Thomas, his sisters, Tammie M. Elder and Lori L. (Doug) Kartak as well as nieces, nephews and other family members.
Tuesday
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
6:00 - 7:00 pm
Tuesday
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
Starts at 7:00 pm
Wednesday
Immaculate Conception Catholic Church
10:00 - 11:00 am
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Starts at 11:30 am
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